The quiet grief of adult friendship
Adult friendship feels increasingly radical. It resists the transactional logic modern life rewards everywhere else.
Blog posts
How to really find one another
Conan O'Brien with the antidote to what's pulling us apart.
Suzanne Mason Haff, 1944-2025
I won the cosmic lottery being born her son. The love and connection we shared was profound and transcends anything I could put into words. I will love and miss her always.
Keeping quiet
A poem by Chilean poet Pablo Neruda.
In celebration of Peter Kirkland Haff: scholar, mentor, friend
A loving tribute to my father that only a former scientific peer, colleague, and friend could write. Thank you, Dr. David Furbish.
Daylight Dies disbands
Reflecting with gratitude on the end of Daylight Dies after nearly three decades.
Teachings on emptiness
We are all dependent on everyone else for every aspect of our existence.
Lessons from a broken heart
I'm learning painful truths at the gateways of grief.
Attention is the world's most valuable resource
This insightful conversation with Ezra Klein and Chris Hayes is worth a listen.
Peter Kirkland Haff, 1944-2024
I'm proud and honored to be the son of such a remarkable and brilliant human being. I loved my father deeply, and I will forever miss him.
The quiet grief of adult friendship
Adult friendship feels increasingly radical. It resists the transactional logic modern life rewards everywhere else.
Daylight Dies disbands
Reflecting with gratitude on the end of Daylight Dies after nearly three decades.
Suzanne Mason Haff, 1944-2025
I won the cosmic lottery being born her son. The love and connection we shared was profound and transcends anything I could put into words. I will love and miss her always.
Attention is the world's most valuable resource
This insightful conversation with Ezra Klein and Chris Hayes is worth a listen.